How rural bachelors can escape being single, method 3 must never be used

In today's countryside, there are more and more bachelors. In the final analysis, family planning is one aspect. Then there is also the conservative mindset of rural areas, which is still about raising sons to provide for one's old age. Now they have no choice but to reap the bitter consequences, but it is still impossible not to marry and continue the family line. So farmers in some remote areas have come up with the following ways to escape being bachelors.

1. Marrying a special kind of woman (women who are intellectually disabled or congenitally disabled)

In rural or remote areas, there is a group of special women. Due to limited medical conditions, some women are intellectually disabled or physically disabled, whether congenital or acquired. From the parents' point of view, choosing this kind of woman is mainly to continue the family line and keep the ancestral line going. For a bachelor, having one is better than having none. And for the woman's family, it can also be considered a kind of relief. In rural areas, there is no affection to speak of in such a marriage; the woman is just a baby-making tool for continuing the family line.

2. Marrying a woman from elsewhere (young and from very far away)

For rural bachelors, being poor does not matter and being ugly does not matter. But they must be smooth-talkers and know how to deceive girls. Generally, local bachelors have a hard time finding a wife, so they set their sights very far. By working in the city or through the internet, they get to know young girls with little life experience. Usually they make the rice cooked into a meal, and then marry because of the child. Even if the girl's family disagrees, in the end they still elope. Rural areas are relatively conservative and also respect life, so they generally will not choose abortion. In our village there are quite a few girls who were tricked into coming from Guiyang. For various reasons, most of them end up with the girl running away alone. Only a small number still live together, and in the true sense there is nothing much to it. After all, it is voluntary on both sides, and being able to trick someone is itself a kind of skill.

3. Buying a woman with money (trafficking or voluntary transaction)

In our village I have heard of people buying women, but in remote mountainous areas this absolutely does exist in reality. Bachelors spending money to buy women has existed since ancient times, and it has even been broadcast on the news. Generally, in places where women are bought with money, the overall conditions are quite poor and there are few women. After being a bachelor for a long time, they get devious ideas and start arranging to buy themselves a wife. It is precisely because of this that the trafficking of women occurs. In other words, without a market there would be no trafficking. Under normal circumstances, after being bought back, they will have their personal freedom restricted. Even more hateful is that they may also be resold. No matter what the reason is, anyone who buys with money should be sentenced.

Summary: In rural areas or remote mountainous areas, the main reasons there are so many bachelors. First, insufficient personal ability, poor economic conditions, low education level, and several other aspects. But no matter what, the third method cannot be used. Remember that the women who are trafficked destroy one family after another.

We should resolutely resist the buying and selling of women, and the fundamental way to solve the bachelor problem is to think about enriching oneself. Marriage is not child's play; it is a lifelong matter and should be handled with caution.