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1. If a person wants to be happy, they cannot be too clever, nor too foolish; this state between clever and foolish is called wisdom.

Reflection: People, if too clever, make others wary; if too foolish, get manipulated by others; neither way can win true hearts. It's rare to be muddled!

2. The way to use people: first use sages, next use gentlemen; rather use mediocre talents than use petty people.

Reflection: That's right. People often say that a truly bad person is not scary; what's scary is a fake good person (petty person).

3. If you no longer want to love, let go; if you no longer want to speak, shut up; if you no longer want to hate, let it go.

Reflection: Everything will pass; there is no need to be too attached to anything.

4. People are contradictory animals: when they have nothing, they think everything is good; once they have bear paws, they think fish is better.

Reflection: People cannot be too greedy; it is impossible to have everything as they wish. I once saw a passage like this: "The poor want to be millionaires, millionaires want to live forever, and those who live forever have endless worries - when will such days ever end..." Cherishing what you have is the key!

5. All negative emotions and mindsets have not the slightest effect on the people and things you are dissatisfied with, but they have a huge effect on yourself and your relatives and friends!

Reflection: People should be a bit more optimistic. A person's life is very short; sometimes one turn around is the end...

6. Love in which you feel no pain is not true love; marriage in which you feel no happiness is not true marriage.

Reflection: Love is sometimes a joke you can dismiss with a laugh, while marriage is a full-length novel, and happiness is a kind of realization.

7. Don't keep staring at other people's pot lids in marriage; you should know that every family's pot bottom is black.

Reflection: "Every family has its own hard-to-recite scripture!" That is indeed true.

8. The benefit of telling the truth is that you don't have to remember what you once said.

Reflection: Usually one lie needs ten sentences, or even more lies, to explain. People should not live so painfully.

9. Vows of eternal love are a heavyweight promise that often leaves mountains and seas embarrassed.

Reflection: Do not easily believe promises; one sentence of "take it" is better than ten sentences of "I will give it to you."

10. Time is a terrifying thing. As it passes, some truths are forever covered up, and some truths are slowly revealed. Sometimes, inadvertently, some truths come to you...

Reflection: Speechless... When doing anything, never always rely on luck; "If you don't want others to know, don't do it yourself" is also a truth.

11. The bitterness and sweetness of coffee do not depend on how you stir it, but on whether you add sugar; a period of pain does not depend on how you forget it, but on whether you have the courage to start over.

Reflection: True pain is that no one can share it for you; how to walk out of the shadows depends only on yourself.

12. In a person's life, only 5% is wonderful, and only 5% is painful; the remaining 90% is plain. People are often tempted by the 5% that is wonderful, endure the 5% that is painful, and then finish their lives in the 90% that is plain.

Reflection: Does a person's whole life really have to be controlled by 10%? Open your mind and broaden your view; plainness is life itself.

13. True love is not being together because you know how good the other person is, but being unwilling to leave even when you clearly know how bad the other person is.

Reflection: To love someone, you must not only love their strengths but also accept their weaknesses. No one is perfect; never abandoning each other is the highest realm of love!

14. When two people have been together for a long time, they are like a left hand and a right hand; even if they no longer love each other, they will still choose to stay together, because giving up so many years of feelings requires great courage. Perhaps someone you love will appear in your life, but in the end that person is just a passerby, and you will still hold your left hand or right hand and keep walking...

Reflection: "Hold your hand and grow old together with you." At first it was a vow, later it became a responsibility, and still later it became a habit.

15. Some people you look at for a lifetime yet neglect for a lifetime; some people you glance at only once yet they influence your whole life; some people enthusiastically become happy for you yet are cold-shouldered by you; some people let you have brief happiness yet gain a chain reaction in your thoughts; some people have loved you unrequitedly for N years yet have been rejected by you for N years; some people's unintentional expression becomes an eternal longing. This is life.

Reflection: The reason there are different types of "some people" is that the time and environment in which they enter your sight are different. Only at the right time and in the right environment - can the person who enters your sight enter your heart.

16. Do not love the wrong person because of loneliness, and even more, do not be lonely for a lifetime because you loved the wrong person. Only by trying to trust can you gain happiness. Fate is a book: if you flip through it carelessly, you will miss it; if you read it too seriously, you will shed tears.

Reflection: Fate is an arrangement in the unseen, unpredictable and not to be deliberately pursued. A book with a beautiful cover easily attracts attention, but few are worth savoring and treasuring; people who write books with their heart and blood often have no time and money to do the decoration. Many books are dull and tasteless from form to content, but being plain and unremarkable is precisely one kind of life.

17. Women will remember the man who made them laugh; men will remember the woman who made them cry. But women always stay by the man who makes them cry, while men stay by the woman who makes them laugh.

Reflection: Crying or laughing are both expressions of true feelings. But for most people, laughing is better than crying.

18. Why does forgetting a person take a lifetime? Because you have not tried to forget at all; instead, you have always been reminiscing, hoping, and dreaming!

Reflection: What cannot be forgotten, what must not be forgotten - let it occupy a place in your heart, but not all of it.

19. In the world of love, no one owes anyone an apology; it is only that someone does not know how to cherish someone.

Reflection: What should be cherished is not only the other person, but also your own feelings. For people who do not cherish you, there is no need for them to say "sorry"; you should take the initiative to say "sorry" (bye-bye)!

20. Grievances that can be spoken out are not really grievances; a lover who can be snatched away is not really a lover.

Reflection: If you do not speak out your grievances, you can only wrong yourself; if you do not let go of the person who does not love you, you cannot obtain the person you love.

21. The distance of the road does not represent the distance of the heart; few phone calls do not represent little concern; not meeting often does not mean there is no longing. In busy years, you should also cherish this care.

Reflection: The Cowherd and the Weaver Girl are a beautiful myth. Sometimes a plain greeting is the truest expression of emotion!

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