Queuing at the Civil Affairs Bureau on Valentine's Day, I accidentally overheard my boyfriend's phone call, and I decided to break up

Queuing at the entrance of the Civil Affairs Bureau on Valentine's Day, I accidentally overheard my boyfriend on the phone, and I decided to break up

There is a question: if you marry, should you find someone you love or someone who loves you. Everyone has their own view. But my experience changed my own way of thinking. Humiliating yourself in love, such love is deformed to begin with. Such love ended up breaking my heart. Where to go from here, I already have a clear answer.

After I started working, I pursued a guy madly, and later this guy became my boyfriend. But he and his ex-girlfriend had always been on and off. I pursued him midway. Although he agreed to my pursuit and broke up with his ex-girlfriend, I found that my boyfriend simply could not forget his ex-girlfriend. Actually I did not care at all, because as long as I could be with him I felt happy. But my mom kept saying I was foolish, saying my boyfriend did not love me at all, that his heart was still with his ex-girlfriend, and urged me to break up quickly and find someone who truly loved me to marry. But I kept sticking to my own opinion and refused to listen to my mom, because I found that I really could not leave my boyfriend.

We dated for half a year, and both sides were very familiar with each other. But his attitude toward me had never been very good, and he often yelled at me loudly. I did not resent it, because I felt that as long as he could belong to me I was very content. But the only thing I could not stand was that he kept delaying proposing marriage. A girl's golden years are only a few, and I was very anxious. Under my repeated pressure, my boyfriend finally agreed to marry me, said he would definitely cut ties with his ex-girlfriend completely, focus on being with me, and decided to go get the certificate on Qixi.

On the day of Qixi, there were many couples coming to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get their certificates, and every face was beaming with joy. Because we had to queue, and we arrived rather late, my boyfriend was very impatient and told me to go queue, saying he was going to smoke a cigarette nearby. Then I waited for two hours, and finally it was my turn, but my boyfriend still had not come back. I was very depressed, so I called him, but it showed that the line was busy. I was very afraid, afraid that he still could not forget his ex-girlfriend, so I lost my reason and went out to look for him.

Finally, in front of a cold drinks shop, I found him on the phone. I guessed at once that he was on the phone with his ex-girlfriend. I quietly went up from behind him and eavesdropped on his conversation, but the next words from my boyfriend struck me like a thunderbolt, and I also decided to break up. He told his ex-girlfriend that he could not forget her, that he did not love me at all, and that he wanted to take her out traveling in a couple of days. My boyfriend spoke softly and gently, completely unlike his attitude toward me. At that moment, my heart was like dead ashes, and I understood that love cannot be forced, that a melon twisted off the vine is not sweet, that one-sided wishful thinking is not love. You thought you had moved him, only to find in the end that you had only moved yourself.

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