Why is it said that a man who grows orchids is worth marrying?

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A man who chooses to grow orchids is definitely not an ordinary man. At the very least, his cultural literacy is relatively high. People grow orchids, and orchids also cultivate people. Some of the fine virtues of orchids are also reflected in him.

1. Orchids can improve a man's taste. The words most frequently repeated every day by men who do not grow orchids are eating, drinking, socializing, playing mahjong, or other low-taste things. After growing orchids, at the very least the man no longer looks like just another face in the crowd and has something unique about him, perhaps not directly related to an improvement in taste. As the time spent growing orchids accumulates, his own taste will certainly improve. In other words, even raising a few pots of orchids to feign elegance is enough to reflect a man's taste. The process of growing orchids is actually a process of learning traditional Chinese culture. Orchids are rooted in traditional Chinese culture, and the standard for judging orchids is the standard for being a person. Through close contact with orchids, orchid growers perceive orchid nature and human nature, learn from the moral cultivation of orchids, and thereby achieve the goal of cultivating the self and nurturing the character.

In one sentence: He has a certain artistic taste and intellectual depth, and is by no means an ordinary common man.

2. Orchids can make a man learn culture. There is nothing to fear in heaven or on earth except a man without culture. In this society that is eager for quick success and instant benefit, there are plenty of men who talk big the moment they open their mouths, but after falling in love with orchids, a man has no choice but to understand something called culture. At the very least, he has to know something about the culture of orchid sages such as Confucius and Qu Yuan, which forces a man who grows orchids to consciously study and understand orchid culture. Even if he is just pretending to be refined, he cannot be too cheap about it!

In one sentence: His cultural literacy is relatively high, and he likes traditional Chinese culture. He has a scientific outlook on life and values, and can maintain a positive, upbeat, and optimistic attitude toward life.

3. Growing orchids reduces a man's chances of becoming addicted to mahjong. Betting on mahjong is not as good as betting on orchids. Although the odds are not high in either betting on mahjong or betting on orchids, at the very least orchids can let a person see hope. If you fail, in the end you can still end up with a pot of fragrant grass, while the final result of betting on mahjong can only be Changbai Mountain (often white and wounded). Once a man who grows orchids becomes fascinated, he simply has no time to sit at the mahjong table. So orchids not only purify indoor air and beautify the environment, but also have the effect of purifying social conduct. This is the consensus of men who grow orchids.

In one sentence: For the sake of orchids, he will kick some of his past bad habits and from then on become a worry-free man.

4. Growing orchids can make a man more attached to home. Why must a room be large if it is elegant? Fragrance does not lie in abundance. Because there are a few pots of secluded orchids at home, a man will not spend a large amount of time outside and will always be thinking about going home to water them, afraid that the little grass will turn into dry grass. When the weather gets hot, he needs to provide shade, and when pests and diseases are frequent, he needs to remove insects, so a man who grows orchids becomes attached to home because of the grass.

In one sentence: He will spend a bit more time accompanying orchids, but at least he will not fool around with other women outside, thereby becoming a reassuring man.

5. Growing orchids can temper a man's character. Orchids have a relatively long growth cycle, and in the process of growing them, orchid growers naturally exercise patience and temper their willpower. Pruning, dividing seedlings, disinfecting, cultivating, and managing orchids: every step allows no carelessness, otherwise the delicate orchids will immediately "die just to show you." This lets impatient men, through growing orchids, gradually overcome emotions such as impatience, narrow-mindedness, and blindness, learn to wait, be grounded, and be rational, develop a calm mindset, and no longer be rash and impulsive.

In one sentence: He has a strong sense of responsibility and dares to shoulder it. At home he is very likely a "three-heart" grade man: loving, patient, and careful.

6. Orchids can teach a man the way to conduct himself in the world. With the spiritual trait of "not failing to be fragrant because no one is there," orchids have made countless men of letters bow in admiration, and they teach people what it means to be low-key. Orchids let a man understand that high-profile things do not last long, and that when getting along with others, one must know how to yield and learn to be low-key and restrained.

7. Orchids give a man friends all over the world. Wealth is not a forever friend, but friends are forever wealth. With orchids as such a good medium, a man's social circle keeps expanding. Where there are orchids, there are friends, giving a man a sense of achievement and belonging. Making friends through orchids, these are all precious treasures of life.

8. Orchids can make a man's character more well-rounded. A true man should not be simple-minded with well-developed limbs, but should be able to enter the hall, work in the kitchen, and go into the orchid shed. He should have both the rough and bold side of solitary smoke in the desert and the soft and delicate side of picking up flowers at dawn. To borrow a phrase, a man who grows orchids should be "able to reach the ninth heaven to seize the moon, and also able to go down into the canyon to dig grass; able to go down into the five oceans to catch turtles, and also able to enter the orchid shed to dally with flowers and grass." Such a man is man enough, right!

9. Growing orchids can make a man know gratitude. Orchids are living spirits, and like people they have a very strong sense of existence. If you treat them well and carefully protect and manage them, they will do their utmost, give off fragrance, and look beautiful for you. If you ignore them or are indifferent to them, they will surely defend their dignity with death and make you look bad. If you do not leave, they will not abandon you. To put it humorously, orchids are using their lives to give men a lesson in gratitude education!

10. Orchids can change a man's image. Many men are unkempt and do not even bathe often, and despite being covered in filth they still call it manliness. But after growing orchids, orchids need clean water, air, and a clean environment, which forces men who grow orchids to first start a hygiene cleanup of themselves, begin to pay attention to personal and environmental cleanliness and hygiene, and begin to take the initiative to do housework. The previous image of a "stinky man" is completely reversed. From then on, his wife no longer needs to worry about his hygiene...........

People often compare a gentleman to an orchid, and a man who likes orchids must be very tasteful and deep. They have uncommon aesthetic standards, are gentle and refined, have no bad habits, are indifferent to fame and fortune, and know gratitude. You do not need to worry that he will develop aesthetic fatigue toward you, because men who grow orchids generally have a formatted aesthetic view, and in their eyes you will always be the most beautiful. Living with them, you will feel very relaxed, the pressure of life will not be so great, and they will let life be lived naturally yet not blandly. They are people who understand life and joy; moreover, they are physically and mentally healthy and never fuss over small matters, so they will not make any grand promises, and will just love you this way until the end of time. So then, if you meet a man who likes orchids, hurry up and marry him.

Orchid Bar, your good teacher on the road of growing orchids