I married a divorced man against everyone's objections, and one year later when I found out I was pregnant, I resolutely divorced him

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I married a divorced man against everyone's objections, and 1 year later when I found out I was pregnant, I resolutely chose divorce

For a couple, pregnancy is a joyful event worth celebrating with the whole family, yet in my case, it actually became the reason my husband and I got divorced. What else can I say?

My husband, who was marrying for the second time, was two years older than me, but I did not think that mattered at all. Because my view on love is very free-spirited, I believe that when two people are together, having the right feeling is what matters most, and nothing else matters. However, others did not think that way. My parents and friends all felt this man was not really worth entrusting your life to. They said the fact that he had been divorced before showed that at the very least there was some part of his personality that was hard to live with. Not only that, he also had a child, which meant that as soon as I married him, I would be a stepmother. Being a stepmother is hard, and what would happen once I had my own child?

But at that time I was practically a young girl in love, and I did not care about these problems at all. What is more, he was especially gentle and considerate toward me. Being older, he knew what a girl needed most. He even kept track of my menstrual cycle for me, and was completely accommodating to me. Our relationship was especially sweet. I felt that a person who cared about me this much would not do the things they talked about, so I firmly married him. My parents and friends were very disappointed, but I did not regret it.

Married life was very sweet at the beginning, and he treated me just like during our courtship. As for his son, our relationship was pretty good too. I cared a lot about his son's daily life, routine and studies, and so on, and he also respected me very much. But I still especially wanted a child of my own. Privately, I brought up having a child many times. Although he was very compliant with me, on this matter his attitude was very firm, and it seemed there was no room for discussion. So, privately, I secretly stopped taking my medication, wanting to have a child.

The result satisfied me. Not long after I stopped taking the medication, I successfully became pregnant. Seeing the hospital's diagnosis, I was overjoyed, as if I had the whole world. However, when he learned the news, his face instantly darkened. He wanted me to abort the child! He said coldly: "We cannot keep this child. I love you and I already have a child. Love cannot be divided any further; the palm and the back of the hand are both flesh. The child is already this old, and if he knows he has a younger brother or sister, he will feel abandoned, and that is not good for his healthy growth. And are we not already very happy with just the two of us? There is no need to raise another child." His words made me feel bitterly disappointed. He says he loves me, yet he does not want our child. Everyone, tell me, what kind of logic is this? I want to divorce him, but what about the child in my belly? Am I supposed to let him live a life without a father's love?