Premarital pregnancy, the mother-in-law refuses to give betrothal gift and still wants a house, my mom's one sentence left her stunned

My boyfriend and I met in college. He is a plain and honest person, he knows how to take care of people, he goes along with me in everything, and he never loses his temper at me. After graduating from college, I moved in with my boyfriend. At that time, the first thing I saw every morning was him, and I could not even describe how happy I was. Back then he cooked for me every day and was truly considerate in every way. This kind of life lasted about half a year, and then unexpectedly I got pregnant. To be honest, the arrival of this child caught us a bit off guard, but I felt I could not abort it, since after all it is a life, so at that time I discussed with my husband that maybe we should get married first. Who knew that in less than half a year I got pregnant. At this point my boyfriend said he wanted to marry me, and I could not even describe how moved I was.

When we discussed the marriage, at first everything was quite good, but trouble came over the betrothal gift. My mother-in-law said that since I was already pregnant, they would not give my family a betrothal gift. My mom felt that since I was already carrying my husband's family's flesh and blood, then they should follow our rules and give a betrothal gift of 60,000. But my boyfriend's mother was unhappy when she heard this. She said I was already pregnant now and no longer a virgin girl, and according to other people's rules, premarital pregnancy should reasonably mean no betrothal gift. She also said their family's conditions were not good and they could not afford a marital home, so she wanted my parents to give a house as my dowry.

I knew what my mother-in-law was thinking: that I was already pregnant, that no other family would want me, and that I would certainly marry her son, so that was why she made such unreasonable demands. I originally wanted to pull my parents away and leave, when my mother suddenly said one sentence: You think my daughter cannot get married, right? Then stop dreaming. I will take my daughter to the hospital right now and abort the child. I will not marry my daughter to you no matter what.

My prospective mother-in-law was completely stunned after hearing this. Seeing that my mom was about to take me and leave, my mother-in-law suddenly stopped us, apologized to my mother, and said she had just been joking and told us not to take it seriously. But my mom was still very angry. After returning home, my mom told me to break up with my boyfriend. My mom told my boyfriend that the marriage was off, but my boyfriend and I truly love each other, and we do not want things to turn out like this. Besides, looking at my belly growing bigger day by day, I really cannot afford to drag this out. And with my belly already this big, you all say I cannot let the child be born without a father, right? The two families have now become like this. What should we do? What do you all say I should decide to do?