If we want more roses, we must plant more rose bushes.
Everyone makes mistakes. If you truly love someone deeply, no matter how they treated you before, no matter what mistakes they make, you will forgive them, and even find reasons for them. If you do not love someone, perhaps they only say one wrong sentence, and you immediately turn hostile and break up. So when a person seizes on your small mistake to break up, it is not because of your mistake, but because they do not love you. Forgiveness is only related to the depth of love. As much love as there is, there is as much forgiveness.
Life has no "if", only consequences and results. The past will not come back again, and even if it returns, it is no longer perfect. Life has advances and retreats; you can lose anything but not your mood. The greatest happiness in life is firmly believing that someone loves me. As for the past, do not forget it, but let it go. Because there is tomorrow, today is always just the starting line. Life is charming when it is simple, and the heart is happy when it is simple; learning to be simple is actually not simple.
A person's cultivation is not shown when calm and peaceful, but when restless and impatient; a person's rationality is not shown when the wind is calm and the waves are still, but when voices are clamoring; a person's compassion is not shown when looking down from above, but when one's words are unheeded; respect between lovers is not shown in leisurely and carefree moments, but when views differ; love between husband and wife is not shown under the flowers and moon, but when disaster strikes.
Do not dwell on the present, do not worry about the future. A good mood is the only wealth in life that cannot be taken away. Life has gains and losses; wise people know how to give up and choose, and happy people know how to sacrifice and transcend. Being able to be at peace with what you truly have, and to rise above gain and loss, bitterness and joy, is also a supreme realm of life.
Some experiences we cannot avoid, and there is no need to avoid them. Only after experiencing heartbreak do we know that ordinariness is also happiness; only after experiencing the bitterness of the tongue do we know that blandness is also sweetness; only after experiencing the sorrow of parting do we know that solitude is also beautiful; only after experiencing a journey of despair do we know that mere survival is also a pursuit; only after experiencing failure at the peak do we know that lack is also a choice; only after experiencing a pact of life and death do we know that detachment is also the highest realm. Only through experience can life become profound, full, and without regret.
If you have ability, there is no need to be discouraged; if you have value, there is no need to show off. The quality of life depends on your daily state of mind, and by changing your attitude you can keep yourself often in a good state of mind. Life is a process, not a result; learn to enjoy the process and make every day wonderful.
If we want more roses, we must plant more rose bushes.
No matter what happens, do not give up and keep walking on. Only after experiencing the road of life do you know that it has short and long stretches; only after experiencing the affairs of life do you know that there are joys and wounds; only after tasting the flavors of life do you know that there are bitterness and sweetness. In life, some things should be given up, but happiness must not be given up; in life, some things can be lost, but your mood must not be lost. No matter how much confusion and hesitation, laugh it off and let everything follow fate; no matter how many setbacks and vicissitudes, take it calmly and be at peace wherever you are.
Life has no assumptions; the present is everything. What you cannot carry, put it down; what you cannot bear to be hurt by, take it lightly; what you cannot figure out, stop thinking about it; what you cannot get over in hatred, smooth it out. Life is a process of cultivation, so why use this discontented heart to mistreat yourself and hurt the years. In life, you might as well develop the habit of "if I can have it, very good; if not, it does not matter", and then you can turn bitterness into joy. Living is a kind of practice.
After a long time, you will discover. The person who taught you the most actually hurt you the deepest. The person you miss the longest is actually the one you can never have. The one you love with all your heart and mind actually does not care about you at all. The person who treats you best is instead the one you have always overlooked. The one who can truly accompany you forever will always be discovered only at the very end. Everyone talks about life, but in fact you only truly understand it after you have finished walking it.
When there is goodness in the heart, it is not easy for evil to arise. When you forget your own existence, a person begins to mature. When you forget the existence of time, a person becomes happy. When you know how to make yourself leisurely and comfortable in the free universe, only then is a person truly relaxed, truly returning to human nature.