The criteria for future mothers-in-law in choosing a son-in-law are out, and after reading them I've decided to raise my son this way

These days, to get married you first have to pass the mother-in-law's test. It's said that being a Chinese son-in-law is no easy job: you need a car, you need a house, and you also have to keep your mother-in-law happy. If you can't keep her happy, forget about marrying... Take a look at the son-in-law criteria of 77 future mothers-in-law.

1. As long as he looks good to me, a house, a car and bride price are not a problem. If he doesn't look good to me, he can go wherever it's cool

2. As long as my daughter likes him, that's fine

3. As long as he makes me look like a good person

4. Knows how to care for people and is motivated to improve

5. Motivated, honest, responsible, dependable, steady; family circumstances don't matter, since for someone who meets those standards, having money is only a matter of time.

6. Dotes on my daughter, capable, responsible, from a family of equal standing

7. Not a mama's boy

8. Takes responsibility, is motivated, and most importantly knows how to cherish his wife

9. A man like her father would do

10. It depends on who my daughter likes; of course I also hope the person she likes just happens to meet my standards

11. Treats my daughter well; not necessarily rich, but at least life must be secure

12. Must not bully my daughter. Must shoulder the responsibilities of a husband and father

13. Not a mama's boy, knows how to cherish my daughter, loves her, understands her. Of course, I want a live-in son-in-law, and I will keep an eye on him.

14. Graduated from a prestigious school, from a middle-class family, of upright character

15. First, I need to give birth to a daughter

16. No losers

17. Motivated, responsible, not a phoenix man

18. Treats my daughter well, not a mama's boy, doesn't favor boys over girls

19. Handsome, humble, capable, devoted to my daughter

20. My daughter likes him, financially independent, independent in character

21. Makes my daughter happy

22. Just like her dad

23. Mainly he must dote on my daughter, not bully her, not be a mama's boy, not have a brother in the family, and his family conditions should be similar to ours. Anyway, I only have one daughter. In the future everything will go to her. So I don't require the man to be very rich, but if he is rich, it must be handed over to my daughter

24. Equal family standing, has a house and a car, conditions must not be worse than ours, being on par is enough. No outsiders; a local knows the ins and outs of the family

25. My daughter is too young, the future is unknowable; let's set all this aside for now and just raise her first

26. Treats my daughter well, responsible, able to support a family

27. As long as he treats my daughter well; of course, he can't be too poor, and shouldn't live too far from our home

28. Motivated, responsible, must know how to do housework

29. Treats my daughter well, earns money for my daughter to manage

30. My daughter likes him and he likes my daughter, as long as his family isn't a mama's-boy family

31. Equal family standing, that's the most important thing; I don't want any so-called promising prospects.

32. Financially independent + independent in character

33. Cherishes my daughter, his parents must have the right values, no mama's boys, no blindly filial sons; a car isn't necessary, but a house and a job are, these are the most basic things in society.

34. Must have a house, good temper, listens to my daughter. Not a mama's boy, reasonable, motivated, hardworking. Are my requirements a bit too many? I have two daughters.

35. As long as he treats my daughter well; as long as my daughter likes him, no other requirements

36. The important thing is that he loves my daughter, cherishes her, treats her well; average conditions are fine

37. First, treat my daughter well; second, must be responsible; third, must live separately from his parents

38. Upright character, a stable job, and his parents must not be hypocritical

39. No standards really; just spoil my daughter with good food and drink

40. Treats my daughter well, doesn't let her go hungry, cold, or end up sleeping on the street

41. The future is unpredictable; this girl only knows how to annoy me all day. First I need to think about how to educate her well, keep her eyes open, not let her be deceived, make sure she can recognize scumbags, and not be blinded by love

42. Has a house, has a car, is motivated, knows how to care for people, devoted, haha, and the key point: her mom doesn't make trouble

43. I want to raise my daughter to be outstanding; then I won't fear not having a good son-in-law

44. I am a future mother-in-law, and I have no requirements for my son-in-law. I do have requirements for his mother. First, I need to meet his mother. A passive-aggressive mother-in-law won't do, a sloppy one won't do, a stingy one won't do, and one who can't read the room won't do.

45. Right values, no mama's boy. An independent marital home, and we will provide a car as dowry. We will help take care of the children. My daughter must not suffer even a little

46. First, treat my daughter well, have good character, be responsible, be motivated. A house and car can be absent, because my daughter has them all.

47. No siblings. No mama's boy, no living with his parents. Treat my daughter well.

48. Treats my daughter well, and no meddlesome mother-in-law

49. Equal family standing, not a mama's boy, has his own opinions, is motivated... best if he's an only son.

50. The son-in-law's parents must have high emotional intelligence.

51. At minimum two requirements. One, a stable job; two, treat my daughter well

52. Has a house, has a car, is motivated. Most importantly, treats my daughter well, and his parents don't interfere in the couple's life. If they have a baby, we are willing to contribute money and effort

53. Family conditions don't matter; the person must be dependable and live a steady life, and must not be one of two brothers

54. Not like her dad

55. Family-oriented, capable, good-tempered

56. Not a mama's boy, doesn't live with the elders, everything else is negotiable

57. Treats my daughter well, responsible, kind

58. If you want to marry my daughter, you must live separately

59. Just like her dad, and that's about right

60. To quote a popular saying from a couple of years ago: has a car and a house, no dad and no mom. That's what we country folk used to say a few years back.

61. Handsome, kind-hearted, treats my daughter well. From a good family, and the whole family has income.

62. I have two daughters. 1. The son-in-law must live close to me. 2. No brothers. 3. The family must be reasonable and must not bully my daughter, otherwise I will show up at their door and fight to the death. 4. Economic conditions must be about the same; that's all for now

63. First, good character. Second, motivated. Third, knows how to care for people. Fourth, my daughter likes him... not one can be missing

64. His abilities should match my daughter's, and his economic conditions just need to be about the same as our family's

65. Rich and handsome, treats my daughter well, not a playboy, not violent, not a mama's boy

66. His parents are easy to get along with, my daughter likes him, and he is motivated

67. As long as he treats my daughter well and his looks are passable. Must not be more than 30 kilometers away.

68. Has a house, doesn't live with his parents. The house can be bought with both families contributing money together

69. No bride price; we didn't raise our daughter to sell her.

70. Must be local. Not a mama's boy, has a car and a house, an only son

71. Equal family standing, good character, treats my daughter well. Takes responsibility, his parents are courteous, and the family tradition is good

72. Has a car, a house and savings, and puts my daughter at the center of everything

73. I don't know why, but I feel like no one is good enough for my daughter

74. As long as he cherishes my daughter, loves my daughter, is motivated, the two love each other, and they are filial to both sets of parents, that's enough

75. No tendency toward violence or being a mama's boy, his parents must have a certain income, and must not hold their children back

76. Not afraid of hardship, not afraid of fatigue, takes responsibility, and when he suffers anger outside he won't take it out at home

77. Not a mama's boy, hardworking, reasonable, motivated. Bride price and such are not needed

78、......

Based on the replies from these future mothers-in-law, to sum up: a house and a car are a must, they are basic necessities of life.

The son-in-law the mothers-in-law like: motivated, responsible, treats their daughter well.

The son-in-law the mothers-in-law dislike: a mama's boy, doesn't do housework, unmotivated, irresponsible.

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